
Lilith
Thank you for taking your time to visit my page! I have a bunch of information about myself for you to read and learn.
Take your time learning about your possible new bestie ^^
Hello there! My name is Lilith and I use she/they pronouns. I'm looking for like-minded people to chat with and hopefully become friends with long-term ^^ So, let me tell you some things about me..
I would describe myself as...
- kind
- insightful
- ambitious
- caring
- understanding
- honest
- emotionally/mentally mature, intelligent, and responsible
I'm interested in...
- self development
- journaling
- introspection
- nature
- psychology
- philosophy
- achieving new goals
- exercising
- cooking
- baking
- art
- board/card games
- spiritualityAnd overall creating the healthiest, most fulfilling reality/life for myself 😇
Dislikes/I'm not looking for...
- voice calls
- video calls
- any and all roleplay
- people who refuse to improve/learn
- non emotionally/mentally mature people
- non ambitious / non goal setting + achieving people
Fun fact: I'm a vegetarian and eat clean!
I'm truly looking for a wholesome, long-term friendship where we can feel safe talking about our problems, our achievements, and to encourage each other to do what is best for us (self development). A healthy friendship where we both do our best to communicate effectively and in a healthy/mature way, support each other, listen to each other, and in general, have a 50/50 sorta friendship.
Although, I do have some things I do not want in a friendship. Allow me to elaborate..‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿Deal breakers (TW!! h@te and dr/gs)...
- drinking
- smoking
- dr/gs
- caffeine intake
- highly processed food intake
- homophobia
- transphobia
- sexism
- racism
- ableism
- ageism
- anti feminism (against respect, equal opportunities, and equal rights for all genders)
- against pro choice
- emotionally/mentally immature, non intelligent, and not responsible(Also, if you're recovering from or truly trying to lower the amount of anything on this list, you're also welcome to be my friend! As long as you're truly trying your best, that's what counts!)(Yes, this ↑ is also saying that if you have a low intake of caffeine or highly processed foods/drinks, and you're trying to lower it, we can still be friends)
‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿︵‿Check the Most Asked Questions, Note for Reader, and Disclaimers section if you still have questions, if it still doesn't answer your question, talk to me 😇
Most Asked Q's and the Answers
Q #1: "Why mention caffeine and highly processed food in your deal breakers?"A #1: I care about my friends and don't want to be friends with someone to watch them purposefully do things to harm themselves (please also read the disclaimers if you haven't to clarify things).
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Q #2: "Why no video/voice calls?"A #2: I don't feel comfortable doing so. If this is a deal breaker for you, kindly take your leave.
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Q #3: "What is an emotionally mature person to you?"A #3: Personally, I'd say an emotionally mature person is someone who has a (or intends to reach a) level of self-understanding with regards to their thoughts and behaviors and then decides how to best approach and cope with situations that might otherwise be trying or challenging.
In other words, someone who tries their best in any situation to, in a healthy manor, cope, heal, learn, grow, and strengthen themselves from a situation.
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Q #4: "Is LilithZ your real name?"A #4: It isn't my real name but I prefer to be called Lilith, and if you're curious, the Z is a last initial.
Notes for ReaderIf you're ever busy, don't have much time to chat that day, need to do something, etc., please notify me if possible, I'll understand. Remember that communication is key ^^And if you wouldn't like to be friends anymore, have any sort of concern or thing that's on your mind about our friendship please communicate that as well. I won't be upset if this is the case, I would rather that all people be upfront.
Disclaimers
- Never message me if you're bored, or just want to chat for a short time.- Please don't ask for pictures I do not send them, if this is a major deal breaker for you, please let me know.- Please ask before hugging/touching (this includes hugging emojis/gifs or text hugs)- I personally do not mind anyone's age, but, if you have a preference of the ages of people you're friends with, please state that in our first conversation so there's no miscommunications!- Please also make sure to communicate with me if we're already chatting if you have any questions about anything.- Let me know if you go against any of the deal breakers or if you're unsure if you don't/do.- If you feel offended or disagree with any of my deal breakers and standards, please do not join a chat to tell me about this. Although if we are already chatting, make to sure to let me know that you have a question or if you'll be parting ways.- I do not hate/have something against anyone who goes against my deal breakers, I prefer to keep my distance if it's something very different than what I'm looking for.Thank you and best regards,
Lilith
Thank you for taking the time to read this! Please ask me any clarifying questions about any deal breakers or anything you're confused about, I'd happily explain.
I look forward to hopefully becoming friends ^^